MISSION
We provide nationwide advocacy, education, and support to victims, survivors, the faith community, organizations, and businesses invested in expanding their knowledge of the dynamics of intimate partner violence.
VISION
To eradicate domestic violence and create a world where all women are safe and respected.
HISTORY
In 2003, Rev. Marguerite Lee wanted to provide help and resources for women affected by domestic violence. Being a survivor herself, Rev. Lee wanted to use her experiences and her platform and influence as a clergy member to help the women, their families, and the faith community expand their knowledge of intimate partner violence dynamics. Beauty for Ashes Ministry started as a domestic violence program at her local church. Led by a passion for hurting people and the unction of the Holy Spirit, Beauty for Ashes Ministry became incorporated by the state in 2006. By 2007, Beauty for Ashes Ministry, Inc. attained its non-profit status.
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A team commited to eradicating domestic violence
Rev. Marguerite Lee
President/Founder
Tonya Frye
Treasurer
Danielle Nicholson
Secretary
Pamela Pate-Franklin
Board Member
Min. Debora Blakney
Board Member
Joan Dunn
Board Member
Annette Porter-Wilkins
Board Member
Tony Porter
Advisor
Judge Keith Smith
Advisor
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The Purple Corner
December 2025
December 2025
The Loneliness and Loveliness of The Season
At this time of year, people are busy with holiday shopping and preparation for different kinds of celebrations. Traffic is heavier than usual with shoppers hurrying to and fro and delivery trucks making their way across the highways and by-ways. For some, it’s a very lovely time of the year. However, for others it’s a very lonely time. I wonder, where do you stand? Are you among the jolly crowd or are you among the lonely? Perhaps you may find yourself caught somewhere in the middle.
The loveliness of the season reminds us that God who created us, also loves us beyond measure. Afterall, is not the season about that amazing love? John 3:16 reminds us that "He so loved the world that He gave His only begotten son that whosoever believes in Him would never perish but have eternal life." There is no greater love than that. This kind of love is not earned nor is it deserved. It is a gift from the Creator and is free to all who dare to receive it. This love is not discriminatory, it’s available to everyone and anyone.
So why is there so much loneliness during this season of the year? For some, it may be due to the loss of a loved one. Maybe you are missing a loved one who is no longer present, and your heart aches because of the void that has been left for you. Maybe you’re single, and it saddens you to see couples all hugged up together, and you wish you had someone with whom to enjoy life. Or are you like the Grinch who doesn’t believe in Christmas and doesn’t see what the big deal is all about?
If you are living in an abusive situation, this season, like other holidays, may have you tiptoeing around your house, not waiting for Santa to drop by with his bag of goodies, but tiptoeing around, wondering when the next episode of violence may occur. Please know that you are not alone and help is available. See the resources listed on our website.
We at Beauty for Ashes Ministry, Inc. pause to pray that your holiday will be safe and that you will find comfort in knowing that God sees you, he hears you, and he loves you. The free gift of love is for you. Believe it. Receive it.
We wish you all a very Merry Christmas and a Happy Holiday season!
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