MISSION
We provide nationwide advocacy, education, and support to victims, survivors, the faith community, organizations, and businesses invested in expanding their knowledge of the dynamics of intimate partner violence.
VISION
To eradicate domestic violence and create a world where all women are safe and respected.
HISTORY
In 2003, Rev. Marguerite Lee wanted to provide help and resources for women affected by domestic violence. Being a survivor herself, Rev. Lee wanted to use her experiences and her platform and influence as a clergy member to help the women, their families, and the faith community expand their knowledge of intimate partner violence dynamics. Beauty for Ashes Ministry started as a domestic violence program at her local church. Led by a passion for hurting people and the unction of the Holy Spirit, Beauty for Ashes Ministry became incorporated by the state in 2006. By 2007, Beauty for Ashes Ministry, Inc. attained its non-profit status.
MEET the BOARD
A team commited to eradicating domestic violence
Rev. Marguerite Lee
President/Founder
Tonya Frye
Treasurer
Danielle Nicholson
Secretary
Pamela Pate-Franklin
Board Member
Min. Debora Blakney
Board Member
Pastor Ekemini Ibanga
Board Member
Joan Dunn
Board Member
Annette Porter-Wilkins
Board Member
Tiffany Byrd
Advisor
Tony Porter
Advisor
Judge Keith Smith
Advisor
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The Purple Corner
October 2025
October 2025
October is DVAM, Domestic Violence Awareness Month, and this year’s theme is, “With Survivors, Always.” This theme emphasizes solidarity with survivors. It is a call for communities to show ongoing support by –
- Providing resources
- Advocataing for safety
- Fostering connections to combat domestic violence
Advocating for safety, Beauty for Ashes Ministry, Inc. wholeheartedly believes in this concept and calls for the faith community to join us in standing united with survivors, showing them that they are NOT alone. If we are to end domestic violence, all of us need to actively engage in preventing it. No one person or organization can do it alone. It will take women and men joining forces, working together, because together we are stronger. #ItTakesAVillage
We must take a holistic approach to supporting survivors because it is the “whole self” that is affected by domestic violence. We miss the mark when we try to compartmentalize survivors or deal with just one aspect of the problem. Domestic violence impacts every aspect of a person and demands that we deal with it and them in a holistic way. See the whole person. Work with them to heal the whole person.
Safety is the number one priority in helping survivors. This too needs to be approached from a holistic perspective. Yes, they need to be physically protected, and I want us to acknowledge that it goes beyond that. Safety for each survivor must also include spiritual, emotional, and financial support. (See 3 John 1:2)
Are you willing to invest in the lives of survivors? Are you willing to show up for them consistently? Are you willing to engage in collaborative efforts to prevent violence? We, and other domestic violence organizations, need your help. How can you make an investment? How can you show that you truly are “With Survivors, Always”? Let us count the ways.
- Donate time, talent, and treasures by supporting organizations that serve survivors
- Show solidarity by wearing purple on #PurpleThursday to honor survivors and their resilience
- Ask for help from organizations to become educated on the dynamics of domestic violence
- Share information about DVAM
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