• MISSION

    We provide nationwide advocacy, education, and support to victims, survivors, the faith community, organizations, and businesses invested in expanding their knowledge of the dynamics of intimate partner violence.

    VISION 

     

    To eradicate domestic violence and create a world where all women are safe and respected.

    HISTORY

    In 2003, Rev. Marguerite Lee wanted to provide help and resources for women affected by domestic violence. Being a survivor herself, Rev. Lee wanted to use her experiences and her platform and influence as a clergy member to help the women, their families, and the faith community expand their knowledge of intimate partner violence dynamics. Beauty for Ashes Ministry started as a domestic violence program at her local church. Led by a passion for hurting people and the unction of the Holy Spirit, Beauty for Ashes Ministry became incorporated by the state in 2006. By 2007, Beauty for Ashes Ministry, Inc. attained its non-profit status.

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  • ABOUT US

  • MEET the BOARD

    A team commited to eradicating domestic violence

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    Rev. Marguerite Lee

    President/Founder

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    Tonya Frye

    Treasurer

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    Danielle Nicholson

    Secretary

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    Pamela Pate-Franklin

    Board Member

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    Min. Debora Blakney

    Board Member

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    Joan Dunn

    Board Member

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    Annette Porter-Wilkins

    Board Member

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    Tony Porter

    Advisor

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    Judge Keith Smith

    Advisor

  • Why We Exist

    1 in 4

    females will be the victims of domestic violence in their lifetimes.

    95%

    of victims are female.

    10%

    of men who are murdered each year are killed by their female partners in self-defense.

    50%

    of the incidents of domestic violence go unreported.

    3,500+

    women are beaten to death each year.

    50%

    of American women are safer on the streets than in their own home.

    Every 15 seconds

    a woman is abused by an intimate partner.

    1.5 million

    high school students nationwide experience physical abuse from a dating partner in a single year.

    70%

    of college students say they have been sexually coerced.

    Ages

    12-18

    is when violent behavior typically begins

    33%

    of teens in abusive relationships ever report being abused.

    58%

    of parents cannot correctly identify signs of abuse.

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    Education

     

    Beauty For Ashes Ministry, INC offers a variety of workshops, presentations, keynotes and trainings for the faith community and beyond. All trainings are geared towards the audience.

     

    Topics for discussion are:

    Domestic Violence Awareness

    Domestic Violence and the Church

    Teen Dating Relationships

    Child Abuse Awareness

    How/Why the Church Can Help End Domestic Violence

    What Is a Healthy Relationship?

     

     

     

    Curriculum

    Beauty For Ashes Ministry, INC. has a curriculum specifically designed to help churches launch their own domestic violence ministry.

     

    For more information on this curriculum and how to set up a training for your church (clergy or lay leaders), please contact us directly.

  • Ongoing Events 

     

    We are continually collecting items for donation to local battered women and other domestic violence and sexual assault agencies.

     

    Also we have:

    SOS: Sisters Offering Support

    Make the Connection Talk Show

    Meet Me At the Well

     

    Annual Events

    Once a year we provide special events for women which are safe spaces fill with inspiration, encouragement, hope, and support.

     

    These Annual Events are:

    Pamper Me Day

    COVER Me

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    Stay Connected!

    Get quick updates, latest news, and more.

  • RESOURCES

  • National

  • Local

    • North Carolina Coalition Against Domestic Violence - visit online at www.nccadv.org
    • Police 911 (emergencies)
    • Mecklenburg County CCS Prevention and Intervention Services- call at 704-336-3210
    • Safe Alliance Hope Line - call at
      980-771-4673
    • Baitul Hemayah, Inc - call at 704-249-3790
  • Help Someone

    Every amount given helps someone

    move from domestic violence.

  • The Purple Corner

    January 2026

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    January 2026

    Happy New Year! That is what everyone is saying, but what does that look like to you? Is it a list of resolutions you hope to keep, a dream you wish to see fulfilled, or is it life as usual?

    On this new day of the new year, there is an air of great expectation. What are you saying to yourself about the new year? Is your deep inner thought, “This could be my year!”?

    Guess what? It is your year. It is your year to choose how you will live it. It is your year to choose whose report you will believe. Will you listen to the naysayers, or will you attune your ears to the word of God?

    I am about to do something new. See, I have already begun! Do you not see it? I will make a pathway through the wilderness. I will create rivers in the dry wasteland. Isaiah 43:19

    This verse suggests that God is actively initiating something new and wants you to be aware of it. He is bringing about changes, and he will provide a path forward, no matter how difficult the situation may be. God is offering a picture of HOPE. He is making a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.

    Perhaps last year ended on a less-than-hopeful note, but in this verse, God is advising you to look beyond the past and find hope and encouragement in knowing that he is creating new paths and offering a fresh start where there seemed to be none.

    Align your thoughts with those of the One who created something out of nothing. No matter how barren things may seem, God is saying he will provide sustenance. No matter how lost you may feel, he promises to give direction. Lean in and see what he is doing in this present moment, and embrace it with trust in the one for whom nothing is impossible.

    If you are in an abusive relationship, believe that God can make a way in your wilderness. He can and will create rivers in your dry wasteland. There is hope and help available to you.

    Look for it. Reach for it. Just as he assured the Israelites that he would deliver them when they were in exile, he will deliver you and create a path where none existed.

    Happy New Year from all of us at Beauty for Ashes Ministry, Inc.

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  • CONTACT US

  • Don't be afraid to reach out.

    You + us = awesome.

    8511 Davis Lake Pkwy, Ste C6-157, Charlotte, NC
    Mon-Fri 10AM-5PM
    980-474-1472
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