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MISSION
We provide nationwide advocacy, education, and support to victims, survivors, the faith community, organizations, and businesses invested in expanding their knowledge of the dynamics of intimate partner violence.
VISION
To eradicate domestic violence and create a world where all women are safe and respected.
HISTORY
In 2003, Rev. Marguerite Lee wanted to provide help and resources for women affected by domestic violence. Being a survivor herself, Rev. Lee wanted to use her experiences and her platform and influence as a clergy member to help the women, their families, and the faith community expand their knowledge of intimate partner violence dynamics. Beauty for Ashes Ministry started as a domestic violence program at her local church. Led by a passion for hurting people and the unction of the Holy Spirit, Beauty for Ashes Ministry became incorporated by the state in 2006. By 2007, Beauty for Ashes Ministry, Inc. attained its non-profit status.
MEET the BOARD
A team commited to eradicating domestic violence
Rev. Marguerite Lee
President/Founder
Tonya Frye
Treasurer
Danielle Nicholson
Secretary
Pamela Pate-Franklin
Board Member
Min. Debora Blakney
Board Member
Pastor Ekemini Ibanga
Board Member
Joan Dunn
Board Member
Annette Porter-Wilkins
Board Member
Tiffany Byrd
Advisor
Tony Porter
Advisor
Judge Keith Smith
Advisor
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The Purple Corner
November 2025
November 2025
During this month, Beauty for Ashes Ministry, Inc. pauses to pay tribute to all the brave men and women who serve in the armed forces. These people sacrifice their lives, their freedom, and time away from their own families to help keep us safe, and they deserve to be recognized. Thank you for your service and sacrifices. Blessed Veterans Day!
November is also Native American Heritage Month; former President George H.W. Bush signed a joint resolution making it official in 1990. Let us take time to celebrate the culture, history, and achievements of Native Americans and Alaska Natives. We celebrate their traditions and languages and honor the contributions of Indigenous peoples. Let us not forget the challenges they continue to face.
Family Court Awareness Month is also observed this month. The purpose is to bring awareness to the family court system, particularly focusing on ensuring child safety, especially in cases involving domestic violence. The experiences of survivors and advocates are highlighted to promote better training and procedures within the courts to protect children from abuse.
Unfortunately, children are often used as pawns in child custody cases, and initiatives have been and continue to be made to ensure their safety. Far too often, children are the ones who bear the burden and wear the seen and unseen bruises in domestic violence cases. This is why it is so important to focus on improving the system and advocating for proper training for professionals on issues like post-separation abuse, childhood trauma, and family violence.
We would be remiss if we did not take time to say Happy Thanksgiving to all those who advocate for the safety of women, children, and all people. We applaud organizations like A Child’s Place, Mecklenburg County Community Support Services, One Mom’s Battle, and Project Justice USA, just to name a few. To all professionals, judges, attorneys, elected officials, non-profit organizations, and faith leaders who advocate for justice and the safety of humanity, we say THANK YOU!
HAVE A BLESSED THANKSGIVING and remember to give thanks to our gracious God.
BFAM © 2025
